7 Ways to Signal Your Interest to a Guy
If you are a single adult looking for a good time, there is now better way to have fun than picking up people in bars or parties or in any other setting. Whether you are looking for a relationship or you just want a hookup, you can probably benefit from knowing exactly how to attract a man to you. Men are straightforward, and the subtler spectrum of hints might be lost on certain men, and people in general. However, everyone knows to react to a certain type of body language, and if you are aware of what to do going in, you will be able to have better results much faster. So go in armed and come out happy, and don’t be afraid to go for what you want.
SmileIt’s so important to smile. This small action will let him know that you are having a good time and that he is engaging you with the topic of his choice. Don’t be afraid to laugh or grin either, teeth can be a very attractive part of the face, and there is nothing better than a sunny smile to get the ball rolling and to signal that you enjoy his company. Make sure to contribute to the conversation yourself, but keep it light. Let him know that you are very interested in him personally, and let your smile be natural.
Looking into another person’s eyes is a surprisingly intimate gesture. If you are looking into his eyes when he speaks, it can really charge the moment with passionate and intimate energy. This doesn’t mean that you need to stare too hard at him, as that will come off creepy or even aggressive. Just don’t be afraid to hold his gaze for a little longer than normal, to let him know that you are interested. This kind of not too subtle information will get him to remember things about you that he might not have before, like the color of your eyes. Try to remember the color of his eyes too, it will make sure that you are looking long enough and often enough.
Look at His Lips
A flick of the eyes to his lips is a timeless indicator that you would like to kiss him. You don’t need to stare at his lips, but don’t be afraid to let your eyes linger for half a second before you back off and look somewhere else. Even if he doesn’t consciously notice the attention on his lips, he will mentally be more inclined to kiss you based on the input he has subconsciously received from you showing interest in kissing. So be subtle, but make it obvious what you are doing, as clues always help.
Dress NicelyObviously, looking your best is going to be a prerequisite for going out to find a man. Wear clothes with flattering cuts and memorable colors. If you are wearing a mostly dark outfit with a pop of color, you will catch more eyes and the attention of plenty of people around you. Also remember to be clean and smell good, as there is little more appealing than a fresh scent when you are talking to someone. A person who knows what they are doing with their clothing is attractive, no matter how far it might go over your guy’s head.
Don’t be afraid to put your hands on him. A gently touch on the elbow or forearm will draw his attention to your body, and brushing legs with him as you sit down is a natural seeming motion that can be easily timed to look accidental, even if it’s not. A gentle brush of the hands is tantalizing, and it will let him know you are receptive even as it begins to excite him.
Draw Attention to Your Assets
You know where you are at your best, and if you want to let him know that you are ready to go, showing him that is going to be the fastest way to getting there. If you have a nice rear end and legs, go dance, and if you have great arms and hands, use them when you talk. He’ll notice, for sure.
If all else fails, let him know exactly what you want from him, if he’s game great, and if not you can just move onto the next guy. Either way, your night can be a success.